Privacy is about security, not shame
By managing our image, she means that we should be consistent in our behaviour and not be one thing to one person and something else to someone else. If you don't want your boss to see photos of you as an idiot drunkard puking your guts out in the city centre, then don't be an idiot drunkard puking your guts out in the city centre. Just don't do stuff you'll be ashamed for other people to see.
Well, that's a sound argument; it's not one I disagree with. But it completely misses the point.
I'm not ashamed of what I do or of who I am. If I take my family on holiday for a couple of weeks, that's not something I hide from the world because I'm ashamed of it. But if I plaster the fact that my house is going to be empty for a fortnight all over the internet, that's a massive security risk.
My date of birth and mother's maiden name are nothing to be ashamed of. Sharing them could turn out to be pretty useful - more birthday greetings perhaps, and maybe a friendly genealogist might trace my family tree for me. But publicising information banks use to reset online accounts is never a wise move.
I agree with Cindy that it's silly to pretend you're something you're not, that telling lies is a bad thing, and being open, honest and transparent is good. But to pretend that privacy of information doesn't matter, that it's ok to share everything about you, that worries about what Facebook might do with your information are unfounded - well, that's just daft. It's embarrassing.
It's something to be ashamed of.
Have your say: BBC got it wrong
Thatchergate: BBC got it right
What Carol decides to say in the privacy of her own home or in a private conversation with friends is one thing. What she says in a green room space, when there are 12 people, in her capacity as a roving reporter for The One Show is a rather different thing.
What I find sad about the entire situation is that we have given Carol ample opportunity to apologise for offence that was caused to key named individuals.
"She felt unable to do that and, for that reason, it is not appropriate for her to work on that particular show, but she will continue to work for the BBC and indeed is.
Strictly Come Voting
Well, I'm feeling slightly smug that my "what will happen" prediction was absolutely spot-on, but I must admit that Tom's showdance was a gnat's whisker ahead of Rachael's. Ultimately though the point is that Tom shouldn't have even been in the final - the judge's scores in the semifinal meant that he should have been in a dance-off with one of the other couples, after which he would almost certainly have left the competition.
I was very much in favour of the BBC's decision at the time to allow all three couples through, since viewers' votes could not stop Tom being in the dance-off. But that alone was not why I supported the decision - the reason for my support was because the presenters had urged the public to "vote if you want to save your faviourite from the dance-off" - yet no amount of viewers' votes for Tom could have done that, so the BBC had to change something or they would have misled viewers.
The key point is, where was the mistake? It was not in the voting system, it was in the fact that viewers were urged to do something that, in effect, was impossible. Lesson learned, won't happen again.
Until the Christmas episode was filmed, that is, when this happened.
But here the BBC made completely the wrong decision. They changed the system to fiddle the results, so that those who didn't stand a chance of winning (because the judges marked them so low that the audience vote wouldn't be sufficient) suddenly did again. Well, so what? As long as the audience were informed that voting for the bottom two couples would be a wasted vote, there was absolutely nothing wrong with the system as it stood.
Any student of basic game theory will tell you that there is no perfect voting system. Any system of scoring and counting votes can be manipulated, result in ties, etc. In my book it's wholly correct that the judges and audience share half the vote each, and the scoring system they use is fine by me. But that does mean that sometimes the audience will be powerless to save their favourite, or for their favourite to win. That's no bad thing; often the judges know better and what's the point of having them if their opinion is to be undermined by the producers rigging the voting system every time they don't like the result?
Is the BBC going tabloid?
What does the actual news story tell us? Wayne Rooney was out for a meal with his fiance and some other friends. Michael Gray was at the same restaurant and approached Rooney's table, uninvited. Rooney asked Gray to leave them alone. Rooney's spokesman said "It was a brief incident" and "As far as Wayne is concerned, he bears no ill-feeling towards Michael." So, presumably, Gray did as he was asked. We're told that "Wayne asked him to go several times" but does that equate to a row?
The headline implies a full-scale bust-up, raised voices, shouting... yet none of that is reported to have taken place. Just what is the BBC's definition of a row? This is the kind of sensationalist journalism that we really don't want to see. It's about as far from public service broadcasting as you can get, because the headline does not match the facts given in the report. That's hardly public service, is it?
In the BBC's defence, other news sources are giving slightly different versions; Sky report "Wayne Rooney is alleged to have punched Blackburn defender Michael Gray in the face". But this still doesn't make the BBC's headline correct - that's a fight, not a row!
There are a couple of other moans to be groaned about this story. Yes there are footballers involved but is it really a football / sport story? It's nothing to do with sport, and it's not a major incident, so why is it the lead story on the country's leading sport website? My final moan is the whole "alleged" thing. I know the journalists don't want to be sued but do we really have to hear and read the word "alleged" in every sentence? If their sources are that unreliable that they have to put such a disclaimer in every statement they make, why bother publishing the story at all?
"Alleged" isn't news, "alleged" is speculation. Will somebody please bring back real journalism?!